But the fuller picture is easier than that. They are happy to try food spots, wander a new part of the city, or even join a game night when the plan feels easy.

Friendship starts for them when someone makes a clear plan and follows it with another message later. They like a regular call or catch-up, because it stops a good first meeting from becoming one more nice idea that fades away.

They enjoy days with a small bit of adventure, like looking through a museum, trying several food places, or taking a random city walk. They do not need drinking or smoking around the plan, and a night built around that can make the outing less fun for them.

They pay close attention to whether someone can be open, curious, and kind in a real talk. A shared spiritual interest can draw them closer too, but they still look for a person who means what they say and leaves room for them to be themselves.

They stop trying when plans keep falling apart after they have put real time and care into them. They do not need every outing to be perfect, but they will not keep carrying a friendship when their effort keeps landing nowhere.

Ask them about the tarot cards.